Miss North Carolina

Growing more than fruits and vegetables

2008-05-06T13:21:00.000-07:00

I just spent the sweetest weekend in Chadbourn, NC celebrating one of the sweetest fruits. The strawberry!

Some of my sweetest childhood memories revolve around strawberries. Picking them with Grandma in Robeson County, sharing strawberry shortcake dessert with my sister (If I remember correctly, I liked the fruit and she liked the cream).

As children our parents always tell us to eat our fruits and vegetables in order to grow strong. Many parents watching this weekend's parade probably used my sweet ride as an opportunity to emphasize this lesson. I rode in an enormous shopping cart promoting the "Goodness Grows" campaign for the Department of Agriculture. When I say enormous, I mean my crown would have taken out the telephone lines had I not ducked.

The oversized shopping cart was worth more than the chance to take funny pictures in it and honk its blaring horn. It got me thinking. I used to grow with the help of fruits and veggies, but now I grow as a result of experiences. Even strange ones like riding in a shopping cart with a motor.

During this year I can feel that I've grown up in numerous ways. I had always heard that every young woman who takes on this role comes out changed and I have watched it happen to many of my predecessors, but I never imagined what the year would do for me. Now I know.

Others may not think that you can become worldly simply by experiencing one state to the fullest. But I know it's true. Our state is diverse. As I have traveled from the Tennessee border to the ocean, I have learned more than how to navigate my car. I have learned how to navigate myself through any situation, with any group of people. I have learned to be flexible and comfortable with ambiguity. And as strange as it sounds, I have learned how to be myself. I have been pushed down a path of self-discovery and have come out on the other side with the gift of being comfortable in my own skin and comfortable with knowing that everyone else has their own unique skin, too.

I haven't changed, just amplified the person that I have been. You'll only see slight differences because now I have broadened my horizons and accepted more experiences. In other words, if someone served strawberry shortcake, I would no longer stop with the strawberries. No, no, no! I would enjoy the experience of eating the whole thing!

Signing off Rachel Ray style...

Yum-O!
Jessica

Miss NC Job Description

2008-04-20T08:05:00.000-07:00

This is a copy of the job description I created to help guide this year's contestants. Hopefully it clarifies what is expected of the titleholder. From my experience, this is what a recruiting post for the position of Miss NC would look like on a job search engine.

Miss North Carolina Job Description

Position description: Miss North Carolina will be obligated to represent North Carolina at a variety of events statewide, implementing the platform of her choice, acting as an official ambassador for the Children's Miracle Network, visiting schools, and preparing for the Miss America competition. She will be expected to perform numerous functions such as speaking, greeting, performing, and interacting with people young and old. She must demonstrate leadership and creativity to generate support in building her platform. Initiative will be an important aspect of the job, as she will be accountable for integrating her role as CMN ambassador into an already-set schedule. Over the course of the year it will be her duty to visit at least 20 middle and/or high schools to discuss making healthy decisions with students. It will be her own responsibility to structure her time so that she can prepare for the Miss America competition.

Required Skills/Characteristics:
Time-management- Don't be late, be early. Fit Miss America prep in where you can.
Communication- You must keep an open line with Beth Knox, your business manager. She books events and takes care of billing and contracts. You will be in constant correspondence, especially via email. This is the only way to stay on top of a hectic schedule.
Using maps- this is not a Miss Teen SC slam! You need to know how to follow directions.
Energetic- Traveling takes a lot out of you, although it is always a good time when you get there. Let's just say I was caffeine-free until this year!
Organized- Because you are always on the go, it is important to have everything you need, where you need it. In other words, you will live out of your car. It should have clothes for any occasion; any needed materials, your crown, a towel so that you can eat out of your lap, etc. You will also need to know where you are going and when you need to be there. Writing things down on your calendar and keeping it with you at all times is a must!
Gracious- I have never competed in a Miss NC pageant that Kay Dickinson didn't mention this word. You will come in contact with a number of hosts, sponsors, children who adore you...it is important to demonstrate thankfulness for the opportunities set before you. Write thank you notes promptly.
Friendly- This goes along with gracious and is a no-brainer. You will find yourself making friends everywhere you go, engaging in conversation. You must show that you are relatable, approachable and a modern young woman (a few terms that the Miss America Organization has really started to emphasize).
Independent- You will most likely do some traveling alone, especially if you choose to become very involved and busy with your platform (which I highly suggest because it adds richness to your year that you could never anticipate). There is not always going to be someone to guide you, sometimes you have to figure it out yourself.
Creative- It is important to let those creative juices flow, especially when putting together your platform. The possibilities of what you can accomplish with the title of Miss NC are endless. Just your name will open doors to making a difference in communities everywhere. Start thinking now about what kinds of things you would do if you were to become Miss NC.
Ambitious- You will receive help from so many generous people throughout your year. However, it is important to remember that the legacy you leave for your year is dependent on your ambition. Others will be happy to help you reach your goals, but they can't do it for you.
Writing- First of all, there is a ton of paperwork involved with Miss America (think how much you had to turn in this weekend!). Second, I have found that people really appreciate when Miss NC blogs about her adventures...and you will have plenty to share. People want a glimpse into your life and writing on the Web site is a great way to give them that.

Primary objectives:
1. Be an involved and engaging Miss North Carolina.
2. Represent your state to the best of your ability on the national level.
3. Leave the Miss North Carolina organization better than you found it.

Final thought: This job description is not just applicable to the position of Miss NC. You can use this as a guideline for everything you do as a local title-holder. Remember that your position in your community is an important one. You don't have to be Miss NC to accomplish great things.

Work weekend

2008-04-20T07:54:00.000-07:00

We had a fabulous work weekend. What an incredible batch of young ladies, committees, and families. I hope that everyone left feeling excited and like they gathered lots of necessary information.

Here is an essay I wrote for this year's competitors about the many roles a state titleholder plays:

A common question posed by students across this state is "Do you always wear the crown?" Sometimes I reply saying "Yes, always. They superglue it to your head when you win and it never comes off. I wash my hair around it, sleep with it on. I forget it's there and hit my head on the roof of my car when I get in and out. But it never ever moves." They may believe it for a while, depending on the quality of my delivery. But they usually figure out, that this is not true.

The ladies in here today who are contestants for this year's pageant know that this is not true from experience. They know it is not true because throughout their years as titleholders, they wear many different hats so to speak, not just a crown. In other words, being Miss North Carolina is more than being a typical beauty queen with a sparkly piece of jewelry sitting on her head. As Miss North Carolina, I have learned what a juggling act it can be to manage all of the different roles expected of me.

I have spent much of my year in the role of teacher. Traveling extensively across the state, I have dedicated the majority of my days as Miss NC in schools, reading aloud to children. At times I felt less like a teacher and more like the voice of the book on tape you might be listening to in your car. I also spent hours in the role of motivational speaker, encouraging middle and high school students to engage in healthy decision-making.

In order to get to all of these schools, I have been a chauffer (for myself!) and an excellent gas station attendant. You may not realize this, but I have also been a bookstore owner this year. I don't have to pay rent for my store, it's in my trunk. And I don't make much of a profit, the books are free. I have found great joy in delivering loads of books at a school because it means that my little car gets better gas mileage on the way home.

Sometimes I feel like a press secretary because, at the end of every school presentation I take questions, some of which you would never be able to prepare. The questions keep coming, some inane and some intelligent. "Do you live in a castle?" "Are you rich?" "Do you have a boyfriend?" These prompt me to go into role of comedienne, answering as creatively as possible. "I do have a boyfriend. He thinks he is Mr. NC. Should I get him a Burger King crown to make him feel special?" What I love are getting questions about book suggestions and hearing about student favorites. This is because I am also a lobbyist, a reading lobbyist. It is ultimately my job to convince as many people as possible that reading is important.

In an odd twist of events, I am not only lobbyist but also a politician. I think there may be a conflict of interest there...I am a politician because I consistently feel as if I am on the campaign trail. Making first impressions, kissing babies, shaking hands. Representing a set of values that others will use to judge me with.

I can't seem to leave the public eye. You see, I am also a B-list actress. Didn't you see my reality television show? It was called Reality Check and was featured on TLC for four entire weeks. I know all of America is anxiously awaiting the release of the boxed DVD set of the season, coming soon to a Target near you. On my off days from being an actress, I dabble in a little bit of modeling. Besides working the runway during the Miss America pageant, there are print opportunities out there too. There are plenty of photographers in North Carolina who have sponsored my modeling career, and it seems that their pictures pop up in some of the most prestigious magazines and newspapers across the state, and even nation. One of my portfolio shots made it into the Miss America program book! Forget the fact that every state titleholder had her very own page; this is still quite a feat!

Of course, articles and bios are always expected to go along with these pictures. That is why I am also a journalist. Luckily I studied this particular area in college. I spend time blogging, writing speeches, and sending write-ups on my various Miss NC activities to media outlets. My life is also like that of a journalist because I meet a tremendous number of people, which means asking a ton of questions. I am constantly interviewing others. And being interviewed, I play both sides you see. Being intereviewed is the spokesperson side of me. I represent the Miss NC organization; I represent literacy; and I represent me. Whether speaking with a newspaper, magazine, radio show, or television news program, I am acting as a spokesperson. That means I have to be poised a ready with a quick comeback for anything they may pose.

I have to be quick in other ways, too. Quick wit is one thing, but quick-footed is quite another. I am a pro-athlete. My event? Swimsuit competition. It's an extreme sport. They are looking to include it in the 2012 Olympics. But by then I hope to be retired. There are times when I logged two-a-days. That's about 3 hours of gym time within 24 hours. Most of it light cardio and Bootcamp classes. But my favorite activity to keep my arms in shape would definitely have to be flinging the first flounder into a frying pan at the Seafood festival.

Now, when attending such festivals, sometimes I am expected to fill in as a food critic. They give me lots of chances to taste test a variety of foods such as yams and pecans, but I don't have much artistic license when giving my feedback. There is no way that Miss NC could give anything but a glowing review to those who host her and feed her! Just to add to the confusion, I am also a rock star at these festivals (and many other places). Let's just say, my signature has taken on a frenetic quality that is mine and mine alone.

Being a famous "rock star" is nice, but I am more than that. I am also royalty. I have ridden in a horse-drawn carriage like Cinderella (please overlook the fact that this was at Farmer's Day Festival), I have cruised through the Caribbean aboard my very own ship that boasts all the amenities such as an entertainment facility and a buffet (please overlook the fact that I shared the ship with hundreds of others, including queens from such faraway lands as Colorado and Maine), I have been adorned with custom-made jewelry to complete my evening gowns of choice (and there is nothing to overlook there). If that doesn't make you feel like royalty, I don't know what will.

But you have to come off that high-horsedrawn carriage at some point and realize that there is work to be done. Especially since I am my own secretary and emails abound along with that Miss America paperwork due three weeks into the job. Luckily I do have a business manager who lifts a significant load off the clerical work. I love you Beth Knox! And along that vein, I have a promotional agent, too. I love you Mom! They both freed up my time so that I can be that hands-on kind of manager I aspired to be. I like having that interaction with other people (I mean, that is what I boast about in my cover letter). In order to do that, I have to spend less time in the virtual world of my computer, and more on the road visiting others. And in order to visit others, I have to get there without at hitch. That’s why I became a certified GPS associate. I can get myself anywhere across the state. I have a hundred percent success rate. Only one minor glitch occurred on the way to Perquimmons County, but I am convinced that it was user error.

Once I received my certification, I had more room in my life to listen to NPR. That investment of time moved me closer to reaching my goal of being a nationally-renowned political commentator. A talking head, so to speak. I had my first on-camera consultation in front of a panel of 6 people in Las Vegas. I think they liked me. They called me back to share more with America a couple of days later. 19 million people watched as I gave my own opinion on political topics.

Just as I can GPS and NPR simultaneously, I can multi-task in other arenas as well. This is not so much a job, as a gift. A gift that many women seem to posses! I can eat, put on a crown, apply lipstick, talk on the phone, read a map, and drive all at the same time. Yes, this may be my downfall. I am a menace.

Although I have a businesswoman's mentality (focused, organized, always on my Blackberry), lately I have found the artist in me. I have danced since age 7, but less for art then for the regimented routine of it all. Now I have taken up an art that will actually pay quite handsomely in the future. I am a scrapbooker by trade. My creations hold memories that are so precious to me and I look forward to sharing with the children that I hope to someday have. What a reward that will be. The secret to being a good scrapbooker is having an experience to document and share. And I certainly have that thanks to the incredible blessing of being Miss North Carolina. I plan to return to my former job as an 18th grader, as I explain to my students statewide, but I have another title that I hold proudly and forever. Someone once explained to me that no matter how many Miss NC's follow in my footsteps, no matter how far removed I am from my experience, I will always and forever be "Miss NC 2007". Now that's a job I will always remember.

Best wishes to the Miss NC class of 2008!

Vote for the East Coast Swing

2008-03-27T15:38:00.000-07:00

Vote anytime for Dancing Like the Stars!

http://www.bubelaiken.org/DancingLiketheStars/tabid/201/Default.aspx

I have been practicing with Roland, my dance partner. What a fun dance!

Swing, swing, swing,
Jess

Dancing with the Stars

2008-03-18T11:41:00.000-07:00

So, did anyone watch Dancing with the Stars last night? I prefer American Idol, but that's neither here nor there (although I do vote for David Archuleta any chance I get!). After being in Miss America it is fun to know that I understand what a thrill it is to be a part of live television like that!

Well, apparently my performing days are not over yet. Instead of Dancing WITH the Stars, I am participating in Dancing LIKE the Stars. Clever, huh? The event is a fundraiser for the Bubel/Aiken Foundation started by Clay Aiken (hello fellow American Idol fans). All proceeds go to special needs children and programs. As someone who has become super familiar with many schools this year, I know that the foundation has a worthwhile place in our communities.

Here is how it works. A number of local "celebrities" are partnered up with local ballroom dancers to compete in a variety of genres. I have been assigned the East Coast Swing. Through the Bubel/Aiken Web site (which I will post below) there will be an opportunity to vote for your favorite dancers based on clips and pictures. This element will be coming soon, so keep your eyes open for that. The live performance will be on April 27 at 1 p.m. at the NC State Fairgrounds for the Southern Women's Show. There will be judges, including the one and only Joey Fatone, and audience voting opportunities.

Let's just hope that my feet don't get too tangled! This will be a little different from ballet, but I've been promised that I can wear a cute costume...

It should be a blast! Please check out the press release online at http://www.bubelaiken.org/GolfAuctionItems/tabid/201/Default.aspx

Cha, Cha, Cha!
Jessica

My children

2008-03-07T07:14:00.000-08:00

This week, during a random exchange with someone I met, that person asked if I have children. Now, I am getting used to that question from students that I visit. My answer to them is always, "No, I do not have children. I am not married either...If I were married my title wouldn't be Miss North Carolina, but what would it be?" Then I hear a chorus of "MRS. North Carolina!"

But when I answered "No, not yet" to the adult, I realized that it's not an entirely true statement. I feel like I have adopted thousands of North Carolina children this year. They are like my very own.

I can see how teachers get hooked, despite the obstacles they must overcome on a daily basis. It's the kids that do it. As a presenter or teacher, it is easy to feed off their energy. And their enthusiasm. And their hugs. You just have to be careful to brace yourself when they hug because they can, and will, take you out right at the knees!

The students I have come in contact with this year have truly impressed me. Even the groups that I thought would be the scariest audiences, MIDDLE SCHOOLERS, have been among the very best. Just this week I visited an after-school program for 6-8th graders who struggle with academics. The school received a grant to pay teachers to stay once a week to help them with their studies. Students are chosen through an application process. It was amazing to see that the students see attendance of the program as a privilege and take their time there seriously. They far exceeded my expectations.

But then again, students usually do. My favorite encounter is usually one when a child asks a very grown-up question that reveals his or her level of understanding. Recently, as I try to drive home the message that community service is more than a punishment entailing picking up trash on the side of the road, I have received lots of questions about helping the poor and feeding the hungry. That's another thing to feed off of...their inspiration.

Two weeks ago, I had another encounter with an exceptional group called "Girl Power." These middle school girls also apply for this program and see it as a privilege. They become young ladies powerful with self-knowledge and world knowledge. I was honored to be the keynote speaker of their ceremony and luncheon. When I walked in I noticed and complimented them on these great t-shirts they had made. It wasn't until I saw the back that it hit me just how special their wardrobe was for that particular day. Printed on the back was the outline of North Carolina and a big "Welcome Miss North Carolina." I autographed the shirts and numerous other things (i.e. napkins, pictures, but NO body parts as a general rule!). They made me feel like a rock star! But, more importantly, I hope they also all have a chance at success and that feeling of be recognized in a positive light. It seems to me that their teachers are seeing to it that they unleash their power to do that very thing.

At almost every school I go to someone tells me I should be a teacher. To me, that is a supreme compliment because it is one of the most difficult jobs a person could have. But despite the difficulties, these faculties dedicate their lives to the job. And to the children. It is unfortunate to me that teachers are not compensated for their role in molding our young people; they should not have to be recruited into a sainthood of sorts, but should be clamoring for benefits rewarded to those working in a tough industry.

Although I may not be a public school teacher, I appreciate the confidence this experience has given me for my next endeavor. In the fall I will begin my last year of graduate school, or what I tell students is the "eighteenth grade." During that time I will also be a public speaking instructor for undergraduates. I could not think of better on-the-job training than the position of Miss North Carolina. It truly prepares you for anything you will do in the future, especially if you throw all of your energy into a cause you find important. I cannot wait to watch young women in upcoming years as they discover this for themselves.

On a final note, Happy Read Across America Week! Happy Birthday to Dr. Seuss! Students everywhere love being invited to this party and celebration. They love his literature and the opportunity to wear red and white hats and eat green eggs and ham. Ice hogs love Dr. Seuss, too. This week I traveled with Stormy the Ice Hog, the Carolina Hurricanes mascot. Just don't ask him if he has tried green eggs and ham...

Still tearing up the road,
Jessica

Miss America Memories

2008-02-04T06:57:00.000-08:00

This time last week I was making my way home from one of the most exciting and memorable experiences of my life. One of those weeks where you think, "I can't believe that happened to me!"

And I still can't. It all seems unreal. I. Had. The. Chance. To. Compete. At. Miss. AMERICA. I feel blessed beyond belief.

Of course each of the 10 days was jam-packed with rehearsals, meetings, filming promos, and appearances at the Rambo premiere and STOMP! But despite the lack of sleep and personal time, it all went by so quickly. I think this is largely due to the fact that all of the contestants felt like friends. It was a relief to show up in Vegas knowing all of the girls...actually looking forward to seeing them. Having taped the reality show not only promoted Miss America LIVE!, but it removed the awkward meet-and-greet period and allowed us to truly enjoy the events. It also allowed for us to show sincere support of each other in all of our successes throughout the week.

But the other contestants were not the only ones showing support. I received cards, emails, messages from people at home and hugs from people in Vegas. These are all people who showed support as I worked to get to Vegas; people who cared about me and my goals before I was Miss North Carolina. Thank you for embracing me and the dream of competing at Miss America! It became a dream for us all and we are fortunate to have had the chance to see it come true.

The highlights of the week for me demonstrate how the whole experience really was a dream come true. Receiving a place as a Quality of Life finalist the first day was a nod to the hundreds of hours logged in schools distributing the gifts of books and spreading a love for reading. My work with Communities in Schools of North Carolina has been my favorite aspect of the job, so it was a joy to get to celebrate it and share the details with the community service panel.

The opportunity to interview with the Miss America panel was another highlight. I was especially thrilled to see Robin Meade on the list. When I first met my boyfriend's parents, she was our first topic of conversation because of my journalism studies background and because she is from their hometown in Ohio! A funny world! My every hope for my interview was fulfilled. I was able to speak about things that are important to me and have fun at the same time. My involvement with Miss America began as a result of a couple of people encouraging me to compete after a mock interview session during high school. It is a celebration to look back on those beginnings and how I have evolved in that aspect of competition.

Performing my talent on national television was yet another highlight. Many of you have told me how nervous you were when it came down to the dramatic, American Idol-style eliminations. I honestly did not realize that I had been a character in the "final two moment" during talent until the pageant had concluded. I felt an incredible peace during that moment (and throughout Saturday, really). I felt uplifted by my family, friends, and faith. I knew I was not going to be led into a situation that I could not handle, whether that meant dancing for 19 million people or graciously accepting the fact that I would not continue in the competition. Now that I have watched the show on TV, I see how quickly that elimination morphed into my turn to perform. I had promised myself on Saturday morning that, no matter what happened, I would live in the moment of the event because it only happens once and it would be a shame not to embrace it all. I am glad I made that promise because I do remember it all, including each and every step of my dance. And as I left center stage to reclaim my seat on the bleachers I, for the first time in my life, saw my parents' expressions after an important performance. Now that's a celebratory moment to remember.

And, of course, being named fourth runner-up is a highlight that leads to many more. After catching up with my Vegas contingent (which included family from North Carolina, Michigan, California, and Florida, friends from Raleigh, and 16 sorority sisters from college) I got to come home! Flying into Raleigh, sleeping in my Miss NC apartment, seeing family and friends, and receiving the warmest of welcomes as I continue to travel...these are my life's pleasures and celebrations.

Jessica Jacobs,
Your Miss North Carolina

Miss America

2008-01-15T04:03:00.000-08:00

They say that patience is a virtue. Well, that's too bad because right now I have none of it. Could Miss America PLEASE be here? (They say politeness is a virtue, too).

I have never anticipated something to this degree in my life. Luckily, I leave on Thursday or I might bust. And not because of nerves. My trips to Orlando for MAOT, Florida for the cruise, and L.A. for the reality show allowed me to meet the entire group that I will spend the next week and a half with and took care of any of those butterflies. And you have to trust me when I say that my mother and several others are nervous enough for all of us!

Instead, I anticipate this upcoming event because I see it as a celebration. It is a celebration of years of hard work and dedication. It is my final bow on the talent stage. It is a display of my healthy lifestyle. It is a stepping stone on my educational path. It is an arena in which to share the wonders of my state and the great things that, with the help of Communities in Schools and Children's Miracle Network, I have been able to do for the children in it.

And it is not only a celebration of me and my accomplishments, but of all of those who have helped me get there. In other words, a celebration of all of those people who are nervous for me!

Preparing for Miss America has been a North Carolina project, not an individual one. So many of you have a little stake in what happens on January 26. But no matter the outcome (because not one of us knows if this is in my life plan), I want all of us to revel in the celebration. There could not be a better place to celebrate than Las Vegas!

From a young age, my dad taught me to be a James Taylor fan. I remember hot summer nights with no air conditioning when we would trek down to the cool basement to sleep and listen to my dad play his hits on the guitar. His lyrics ring true to me and my family, especially a particular song that Dad brought up at the dinner table last week:

The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time
Any fool can do it
There ain't nothing to it
Nobody knows how we got to
The top of the hill
But since we're on our way down
We might as well enjoy the ride

I have certainly enjoyed the passage of time and will continue to do so. I have a peace and contentment knowing that I have put my all into my job as Miss North Carolina and my preparation for a possible promotion...Miss America. Thanks to all for your help and support.

Love,
Jess

My year in numbers

2007-12-11T10:26:00.000-08:00

Yesterday I visited a second-grade class in Clay County, NC. Where is that, you ask? Well, an hour and a half from Atlanta, an hour and a half from Chattanooga, and an hour and a half from Asheville. Right in the middle. And, not only did this class have a chinchilla, which is an animal that I have never seen in person despite the fact that I read about one all the time in one of my favorite children's books, but they were practicing all of the verses to the 12 days of Christmas. I never can seem to remember all of those verses, there is not enough room in my head for the numbers and their corresponding characters. But, I have done some tabulating of my own and here is...

My year in numbers to date...

155,000 Books
15,000 Students
13,000 Little ears hearing books
400 Hours in car
100 Hours traveling to schools
100 Hours in schools
51 New friends from other states
30 Bootcamp classes
15 Parades
14 Festivals
13 Parties
11 Blog entries
10 Shopping excursions
6 Pageants
5 Hospital fundraisers
4 Golf tournaments
3 Photo shoots
2 Pow wows, 2 concerts, 2 commercials, 2 homemade videos, 1 reality television show
1 Cruise
1 Disney trip
1 Price Is Right appearance
1 Legislative address

...and 1 month until Miss America!

Happy Holidays and see you in Vegas,
Jessica

Back for the Holidays

2007-11-20T10:41:00.000-08:00

Whew! I am so glad to be back in North Carolina! I have been gone for the past 2 weeks, taping reality television programming starring all 52 Miss America contestants. Although I cannot share details about my time pretending to be a TV star in California, I can say that the Miss America Class of 2008 (all the upcoming contestants) are probably the most fortunate in the history of the organization. No other class has been given the opportunity to bond in the way that we have. Imagine 9 days of living together, eating together, playing together, and no cell phones to link to the outside world! We may have been taping a reality show, but we felt very detached from reality. Luckily, we all traveled home feeling like we had made wonderful friendships and had participated in producing a show that will positively promote the Miss America Organization.

I know that it is frustrating that I cannot explain what exactly we did for such a long period of time. But I hope that everyone allows the excitement and anticipation to build until the four, one-hour episodes air on TLC. Our partnership with TLC is a perfect fit in terms of quality and values. And the network reaches 95 million homes. Our faces are going to be everywhere!

Back in June I knew that I would probably participate in taping television programming in the fall, based on last year's CMT "Pageant School." However, the prospect seemed so far down the road. I cannot believe it is already November, Thanksgiving week. Time has flown by, yet summertime feels like ages ago...In the same way that my time in California went by so fast, but it seemed like I was gone for such a long time. It is like I am living in a strange time warp from another dimension. I guess that is the best way to describe a happy and fulfilling life.

Judging by the way things have gone so far this year, January competition week will be here before I know it. I am thrilled! Hopefully Thanksgiving and Christmas will provide enough excitement to distract me from the big event.

Now I am headed off to the Carolina's Thanksgiving Day Parade in Charlotte and the North Carolina Holiday Flotilla in Wrightsville Beach...

Gobble, gobble,
Jessica

Anchors Away

2007-11-01T12:57:00.000-07:00

Ahoy Maties! I send my best wishes and lots of buried treasure from aboard the Royal Caribbean Majesty of the Seas cruise ship. I know, I know. Sounds like hard work. But someone's gotta do it!

After 4 months of traveling by car, I thought I would add boating to my repertoire. Along with about 30 other Miss America contestants, I am in the midst of sailing from Miami to Key West to Cozumel and back. This means a week of lots dressing up, photo ops, and conversational chatter. It is refreshing to learn that each girl is experiencing the same things I am in her respective state. Everyone is friendly and everyone is working hard. Most do not get much time off, some are still in school or working another job as well. In fact, most of us have appearances once we return this weekend, just to turn around and board another flight to Los Angeles for the taping of the Miss America Live! reality TV show. I will spend time at the Pecan Festival this weekend, which I have been informed by my father is pronounced "Pee-can" not "Pa-can".

So yes, we are all anticipating LA, wondering what awaits us. But, we are all in this boat together. Literally. All of us agree that this bonding experience allows us to make friends in a non-competitive context, and before being thrown into an unusual and new reality TV situation. By the time Miss America is complete, we will have spent 3 days together in Orlando for Miss America's Outstanding Teen, 5 days in the Caribbean, 10 days in LA, and about half of January in Vegas for the big event. It's like a super-intense camp. And I predict that we will leave with the types of friendships you make over marshmallows and hide and seek as a child gone for the first time in the summer.

At a seminar yesterday morning on branding ourselves and marketing our abilities and the program we were encouraged to drink in these moments. They only happen once, our "Ta-Da" moments. These are the moments you can never re-live because they are unique due to the time, place, and circumstance. And we will always have these memories as the Miss America Class of 2008.

Time aboard the ship has also been a blessing because I have spent time bonding with North Carolina committee members (although not nearly enough!). Their support and encouragement abounds, and for that I am appreciative. They remind me to own the experience, make it memorable. They remind me that I am the only Miss North Carolina 2007 that ever was or will be. The reality of that has really hit me this week. More than any reality TV show could portray. To be here is a dream in and of itself, Miss America or not.

Here is a run-down of a few of the events we have experienced this week...

Key West Train Tour and lunch at Alice's famous restaurant (can you say Key Lime pie?)
Captain's Party and Guest Meet and Greet (filled with fellow cruisers who are curious about what so many crowns are doing on this ship, and rightly so!)
A Contestant Talent Showcase
Pool time
Meal time
And...the Halloween costume party is tonight (I plan to dress as a Twister game, spin board for a hat)

The best thing is that none of us will have time to miss one another once we dock at port tomorrow and go our separate ways. We will reconvene on Sunday for another round of activities and productions. This means that I am missing North Carolina and will look forward to the holidays spent with all of you!

Sailing away,
Jessica

Help Jessica raise money for Children's Miracle Network

2007-10-27T06:52:00.000-07:00

Jessica is getting ready to compete in the Miss America pageant. As a contestant, she needs your help to raise money for Children'sMiracle Network and the Miss America Scholarship Fund. Please help her reach her goal of $1,500.00 by clicking on the link below. Your donation will be considered a charitable donation for tax purposes anda receipt will be provided at the end of the year.

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Once you have completed a secure on-line donation, your donation will be included in Jessica's fund raising total on her personal page. Jessica's personal page will track her results and provide a comparison to other contestants. This year the Miss America Organization has teamed up with Children'sMiracle Network, a non-profit organization dedicated to saving and improving the lives of children by raising funds for children'shospitals. This new partnership gives each contestant the opportunityto raise awareness and funds for two great organizations Miss America Organization and Children's Miracle Network.

Hospitality

2007-10-10T11:17:00.000-07:00

What hospitality! I encounter it everywhere I go. Because of my partnership with Communities In Schools of North Carolina, I am spreading the love for reading across the state and gaining a ton of welcomes in return.

When I arrive to a particular area to embark on my tour of schools, I am always met by a local Communities In Schools representative who guides me along my way. I have spent time with new and old friends in the CIS office as a result. The executive directors, staff, and volunteers who coordinate my visits are certainly busy giving all they have to support the children who need it most.

And I can see why they do it. These children are wonderful! After every presentation (whether it is on reading or decision-making), I receive more hugs and thank you's than I could have anticipated. I have been presented with school t-shirts, sweatshirts, and coffee mugs, pens and books. One book even had the signatures of the children I read to that day, each one under a different picture of a dinosaur! Towns welcome me with local marquee signs and the news media always stop by to cover a visit. The students also document the event. I have posed for yearbook photos, read words of wisdom for two schools' news shows, and been interviewed by an eager group of aspiring fifth-grade journalists who came prepared with wonderful questions. Another school posted an interview on its school Web site. Check out this podcast from Broad Creek Middle's technology team: http://www.carteretcountyschools.org/bcms/.

One of my favorite moments occurred at an elementary school in Carteret County (I was in town to visit schools for two days and to appear at the Seafood Festival for two days, a GREAT time!). I was asked to remain outside of the gym until I was called upon. It was a delight to see that the Safety Patrol (fifth-graders who look out for the hall and bus-loading safety of the younger kids) would escort me to the microphone. I had my own security detail, like the President! I wonder if they had a secret code name for me? At the end of the session, all of the students stood to serenade me with their school song. It is truly a precious memory.

Oh, and they feed me too! Lunch is a nice moment to relax and get to know teachers, administrators, and students. And I always know that an assortment of snacks will be ready at Thomasville Primary where "Read to Me" all began...

Returning to Thomasville was especially sweet. It was like a "Read to Me" reunion. I reconnected with the media specialists and director of the Communities In Schools of Thomasville chapter who helped me to establish the program. Over lunch, I met with the local CIS Board. I was surprised to be presented with a hand-crafted walking stick. Instead of giving away keys to the city, the Davidson County Commissioners give a lovely, locally-made walking stick. A plaque thanks me for my service to the community and notes that it is only the fifth of its kind to be given away.

Like I said, it is a delight to reconnect with people who have helped along the way to bring "Read to Me" to life. But it is also a blast to find people you never expected to find. While giving a good-decisions presentation at a middle school, I noticed a teacher sitting at the top of the bleachers. He looked familiar and he seemed to be paying particularly close attention to my message. As he walked up to speak afterwards, it all became clear. "Mr. Sanderson!" I exclaimed. My freshman Biology teacher now teaches middle school science by the beach. What a small world.

Although visiting students is my favorite part about being Miss North Carolina, I revel in the opportunity to experience a number of different events. This past weekend at the Seafood Festival I toured a naval ship (the officers were hospitable as well; they must have learned it in school!), flung the first flounder into a frying pan (a Miss NC tradition, I was successful on all three tries), and sent off professional fisherman for a tournament (look for footage of me calling their boat numbers on ESPN2 in December). The great thing about attending the Seafood Festival was that I was able to visit longer with the students I had met in school that week. Many showed up for the festivities and many approached me to chat about the school visit or the fun rides and delicious food.

So impressed with our schools, students, and CIS chapters,
Jessica

Kids say the darndest things!

2007-10-02T09:25:00.000-07:00

Kids say the darndest things!

Some of the things that the students I visit across the state say really tickle me. Whether I am reading to K-5 or speaking about good decision-making with a middle or high school, I always wrap up my presentations with Q&A time. I learned quickly that kindergartners do not understand what a question is. But they love telling stories!

Here are some examples with my responses in italics...

My birthday is in December.

Awesome! That must be cool that it's so near to Christmas!

My favorite food is pizza.

Well, I don't trust anyone who doesn't like pizza...

My dog farts.

(Giggle) I've never had a pet, I didn't know that they do that!

If you showed up to my uncle's house, he would fall back in his recliner!

Oh my! I better not go there. We wouldn't want him to break a bone!

Now, as the kids get a bit older, they come up with questions that they actually ask. What I have found so interesting is that students, no matter where they grow up, want to know the same things.

It goes a little like this...

How do you keep your crown on your head?

They sewed it to me when I won. Just kidding! I pin it to my head, see? (bend over to demonstrate). If I could do a handstand, and then I did one, it wouldn't fall off. Cool, huh?

...I actually did limbo at one school with it on.

What do you drive?

A little teal, Toyota Corolla. But it's so dirty because I live out of it. I would be embarrassed for you to see it. Anyone want to wash it for me? I'll give you $5. (hands raise quickly).

Are you rich?

No! I just live in an apartment, but wouldn't it be neat if I lived in a castle? If I had a castle it would definitely have a moat and a drawbridge.

Do you have to do paperwork?

Oh yeah! I hate to break it to you, but every job has paperwork. You'll be doing it for the rest of your life; those worksheets are not the end of it...

Do you do kids' homework?

No, because then my brother would get jealous and want me to do his homework, too.

Do you have a sister?

I sure do! But she's lives in Egypt right now. Plus, I think she's a little too old for you.

Are those real diamonds in your crown?

No. What do you think I would do with my crown if it were made of real diamonds?

Sell it!!!!!!

How old are you?

23. (I don't want to know if they thought I was older or younger!)

Is there a Mr. North Carolina?

Not officially. But my boyfriend Dan thinks that's his title. Should I bring him by to visit next time? (a chorus of yeah!)

Are you married?

Nope. What would my title be if I were married?

Mrs. North Carolina!

Do you like pigs in a blanket?

Yummy! My mom makes those.

I just love the cheese in the middle!

Now, of course, I get many serious questions too. I especially love it when students want to know more about my favorite books and genres of literature. I enjoy giving suggestions that might pique their interests. At one elementary school I had the distinct pleasure of being interviewed by six 5th graders for their school's morning news program. They each asked two questions and all were intelligent. They wanted to know how I got involved with pageants, what are my favorite parts of being Miss NC, what is my best elementary school memory, etc. They were darling and enthusiastic. One boy even mentioned that he was so excited for my visit that he couldn't sleep the night before! How cute!

There are far too many memories and experiences to detail here. I wish I could remember everything I get asked; it would make a fantastic book! As I think of more, I may add to this list. As a state titleholder, you certainly have to be quick on your feet. You never know where those questions will come from!

My days are full of humor!
Jessica

Miss America Lottery

2007-09-24T17:59:00.000-07:00

Miss America is finally becoming a reality! Tonight every contestant participated in the contestant lottery. This process was a mystery to me until this year, as it probably is for many. In case you're curious...

Each contestant logged onto a special web page that showed all of the available placements. There are three preliminary groups labeled Mu, Alpha, and Sigma. Each group contains 17 or 18 placements. A computer randomly chooses states, displaying who is up to choose her slot and who comes next in line. When it is your turn you have five minutes to call the Miss America Organization with your choice.

It was a blast to see everything unfold in real time. Now it is really possible to visualize what the week in Las Vegas will be like. I am in the Sigma group. This means that I will have my interview, swimsuit, and evening gown on Tuesday; talent on Wednesday; and onstage question on Thursday. For a view of the entire line-up, check out the Miss America Web site.

What a fun way to begin the week! I will finish the month of September with another round of school visits (19 schools to be exact) and Mint Hill Madness. September has been a whirlwind of weeks. Between visiting students, attending festivals, and Miss America preparations like the lottery, I have been a busy Miss NC.

Last week is a great example of a typical September schedule for me. I spent two days and 7 hours driving to reach Wilkes County schools, arrived back in Raleigh for one day at home to rehearse, made a 1.5 hour return trip to my parents' home in High Point for more rehearsal and a salon appearance at Chakra's (I definitely took advantage of the makeover!), traveled almost 5 hours round trip to take some great photos with Lenn Long, left the next day from Raleigh to go 2 hours away to Clarkton for a purse luncheon raising money for the March of Dimes, spent another 3 hours en route to Indian Trail for a 2-day Pow Wow, and finally circled back to High Point.

My life is like one big run-on sentence! And I enjoy every minute of it. When I visit schools, I always tell the kids that I have the greatest job in the world. It is incredible to me that my job description includes reading stories to children, hanging out in a salon, taking pictures, giving away purses, and learning more about my culture. This opportunity allows me to meet new people, all the while representing something that is bigger than me...a network of young women who are role models and make a difference in their communities. The lottery tonight reminded me just how much I look forward to bonding with them in the upcoming months, on the Miss America cruise and taping reality television in Los Angeles.

So keyed up I might not be able to sleep,
Jessica

Tour of Schools

2007-09-11T09:36:00.000-07:00

I couldn't think of a better way to kick off my tour of North Carolina schools than by visiting the school that I know best. I spoke to Ledford High School in Thomasville, NC on Wednesday. I am a member of the Class of 2002.

It's funny because I don't remember my class song, who won a senior superlative, or anything of that nature. However, I do remember every teacher I have had from pre-school through high school. Many of my high school teachers remain at Ledford and it was a blast from the past to visit with them before my presentation. I have to admit that, later that day, I called all of my high school girlfriends to share that I had caught up with so many people.

This school visit was particularly meaningful because my brother Drew is a Ledford senior. While most boys his age would be embarrassed for an older sibling to address him and his peers on topics such as good decision-making and anti-smoking, mine is so confident and self-assured that being embarrassed would never cross his mind. In fact, the poor guy has had to learn to cope with such things, especially this year. My sister recently studied abroad in China and is now studying in Egypt and the reports she writes for the local newspaper are plastered all over the bulletin boards at school. And he thought that she and I had gotten out of town a long time ago...

He, along with eleven other eager students, willingly came down to the floor of the gym to participate in some audience participation activities. Most of them were well-informed and able to answer the tobacco quiz questions, but my brother didn't do so well. And to think, I could have helped him to study the night before in preparation for the big exam! One of the most delightful students I met was a sophomore with Ausberger's Syndrome, a mild form of autism. While waiting to answer the questions, he shared how nervous he was to be in front of so many people and moved back and forth in anticipation. I replied that I understand what it's like to be nervous; it's not easy to get up in front of a crowd. It heartened me to see all of the students in the gym clap for him and cheer him on. Following the presentation, teachers and administrators shared that everyone really embraces him. I am proud to see that my high school continues to be such a wonderful, accepting environment.

I am looking forward to being impressed by all the other high schools, middle schools, and elementary schools that I visit. September will be full of similar presentations and programs on literacy as well. Many may wonder why I look forward to these visits; they assume that students are not receptive. I have found, however, that this is not the case. A couple days following my Ledford presentation I met a woman at a festival. She shared with me that her son came home and relayed all that I had talked about at school. She said she was surprised that he did not even mention the crown; he stuck with the message! This encourages me and demonstrates the power of speaking.

Watch for a list of more schools on the tour ... and here it is!

Jessica

Children's Miracle Network

2007-09-01T09:05:00.000-07:00

Last week I began what I consider to be my first duties as a Children's Miracle Network ambassador in North Carolina. Although I had previously visited the Orlando CMN facility with the rest of the Miss America contestants (and boy was that pirate ship on the playground cool!), I had never been to our own state's CMN facilities. Now I have visited all three hospitals: Duke's Children's Hospital in Durham, Levine Children's Hospital in Charlotte, and Pitt County Memorial Children's Hospital in Greenville.

North Carolina is fortunate to have such fantastic health venues. Each Children's Hospital provides top-of-the-line care in a kid-friendly environment. Walls are colorful, animated characters hang from the ceilings, and children's artwork hold places of honor in every hallway. I was incredibly impressed with all that these places offer with the help of the CMN organization.

CMN provides the very things that our hospitals need most. Families of patients will often travel far from home to seek medical treatment and these hospitals do as much as they can to accommodate them. In Orlando, hospital employees were most excited about the brand new washer and dryer room funded by CMN. The room is for family use. People travel from all over to seek treatment at Duke and Levine; Pitt County Memorial has a 29-county region. It is easy to forget that these people, being far from home, don't have the security of knowing where they will do their laundry each week. This is the peace of mind that CMN brings.

My visit to Duke consisted of a lovely tour of the facility by the hospital's CMN Director Karen McClure. She introduced me to patients, room by room. She even had a colorful wagon to haul my brand new books. Each child received a book of his or her choice, and the remaining books will be distributed among future patients and used to supplement the libraries in the hospital's Toys R' Us playrooms (decorated in the taste of Geoffrey the Giraffe, animal print and all!). I did much the same thing in Charlotte with a friendly Child Life Specialist/Volunteer, Tucker Weller (on her 70th birthday!). Tucker noted that she went back to some of the rooms after my visit and the kids were reading their books and that she thinks the afternoon I spent "will have a long-lasting impact". I am glad that our time together meant something to the children, it certainly did to me. I am also thrilled that the hospitals have been receptive to my literacy campaign. Education is an important part of a child's overall well-being, in addition to the physical and emotional aspects addressed in the hospital.

In Greenville, Dr. Perkin, an ECU professor and head of pediatrics, provided an informative tour of the Children's Hospital, which was followed by a reading session and book distribution with patients. His demeanor was spiritual and compassionate. He said hello to every person we passed. This is a testament to the wonderful doctors we have in North Carolina, and how proud they are of our great facilities. I saw the NICU, with its individual temperature and light-controlled baby rooms and family sleepover units. The entire back wall was windowed, to cut down on the "compassion fatigue" of nurses and doctors. The floors were padded and a brand new computer system up and running. It is these special features that CMN helps to fund.

But CMN also assists with smaller, supplemental projects that are equally important. One example is "Josh the dog." Josh is a stuffed puppy that arrives to a child's room in a doghouse box to be a companion to the child throughout traumatic medical treatments. Another example is that of the courage beads given to children when they demonstrate bravery. These children have long strings of beads after all that they've been through.

Although I was not aware of each of the medical conditions that the children I met face, I felt that I got to know a little about each of their shining personalities. I met a triplet going home after a heart surgery, a "The Little Mermaid" lover, a young girl with a birthday the day after mine. I met a young woman who is only one month my junior and who has an uncannily similar name. I also met a boy who must be my cousin since we have the same last name! His companion shared that he had not talked all week until I arrived when we conversed about Nashville, Kenny Chesney, and High School Musical 2. I met a bright child who is one hospital's CMN "spokeskid." She is dynamic and energetic and sings to all who pass by. I met a fellow Tar Heel (he had more paraphernalia than you could imagine; I felt right at home in his room! Surprisingly, I met plenty of Carolina fans although the hospitals have strong affiliations with other schools. One nurse claimed she came from a "house-divided"!) I read "Tick Tock Sharks" with one 2-year-old. I made friends with a feisty middle-schooler with 7 siblings, all home-schooled. What a brave mother! I witnessed strong children who were fighting to live, and I admire them all. Oh yeah, I met someone whose job I hope to have when I grow up. She is the "princess, queen, president" of the world and I was lucky enough to gain an audience with her majesty before she left on her bicycle to a very important party in her honor for her bravery before a chemo treatment. Cake and all! Trust me, I did not forget to bow.

I have also been to Roanoke Rapids for a Pitt County Memorial CMN event and Willie Nelson concert at the new Carolina Crossroads entertainment complex. I met Randy Parton (Dolly's brother) and George Ragsdale, a delightful man who developed the complex and has dedicated tons of time, service, and funds to CMN. It was a pleasure to share a few words with concert-goers about the importance of the CMN organization and a few of my CMN experiences. I shared the stage with a CMN family with quadruplets (2 boys, 2 girls) and an older brother who was quick to point out the rowdiest of the four when I asked!

Later this year I will remain actively involved. I plan to visit the hospitals as new patients arrive, especially once Charlotte revamps its facility. I will take part in a Radiothon and emcee the Teddy Bear Ball in Durham to raise funds for the hospital. It is my honor to be a part of this. I am glad my eyes have been opened to our state's healthcare opportunities. Mostly, I am glad to have new young friends who have a lot to teach me about resilience and faith.

Traveling, traveling

2007-08-18T12:48:00.000-07:00

Disclaimer: I meant to post this on 8/8. However, when I arrived in Orlando my luggage was missing! Needless to say, the whole afternoon was spent looking for a cocktail dress to wear to the preliminary MAOT pageant and navigating Wal-Mart for other necessities. Luckily, we have an amazing state committee who took wonderful care of me, like a daughter. And, my luggage arrived at 4:30 the next morning...Here is what I hoped to communicate early last week!

I am writing this as I take off to fly to Orlando to watch our very own BrieAnna Hester compete in the Miss America's Outstanding Teen Competition. She is a darling young lady, with energy and spunk! She deserves the honor of representing us on a national level. On Wednesday she will perform her "Cha Cha" tap dance and Thursday she will waltz across stage in her evening gown. Her interview was earlier in the week, and I even heard she was the star of the show at Medieval Times, a fun dinner/show event that all the girls attended.

It is my delight to support BrieAnna (and it doesn't hurt to take a trip to Orlando, does it?). I happily stand behind her because I know that she uses this leadership position to make a difference in our communities. BrieAnna has spent the past several years volunteering at a number of organizations, most notably the MDA camp at Camp Carefree in Stokesdale. She speaks glowingly of this annual experience and was torn that she could not be a counselor this year due to this week's competition.

Yesterday I visited this camp to spend time doing arts and crafts, playing Shrek UNO, and eating tacos while watching Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles with the campers. Now I have had a glimpse of why BrieAnna speaks so fondly of these children. They are remarkable, resilient, and funny. I enjoyed the day, and all the more so knowing that I could serve in place of BrieAnna, at a place that is important to her, during a week that is important to her. You haven't been forgotten at Camp Carefree, BrieAnna!

On behalf of BrieAnna and myself, thank you to all of our supporters, not only during weeks such as this, but during the entire year. Over the past weeks I have had the pleasure of traveling with some delightful people, just to get to go see other delightful people! These people include a number of fellow local titleholders, all of whom have become lovely friends. Miss Mecklenberg Whitney James and her Outstanding Teen Kelsey Norkett met me in Charlotte to take part in a birthday bash for Maggie Moo to raise money for the Children's Miracle Network. We scooped ice cream and consoled the poor high school boy who dressed as Maggie the Cow (crown, sash and all!). Miss Moore County Emmy McLean and I rode in what we deemed a "Disney princess", old-fashioned carriage through the streets of Robbins for the Farmer's Day parade. And of course, I am still attending Boot Camp class at Gold's Gym in North Hills and Miss Johnston County Chelsea Ingram has been joining in. A whole host of Misses attended the Miss Statesville pageant as well. Hopefully the people behind us could see the stage over our crowns!

These experiences remind me just how connected we all are through this experience. I love knowing that our paths will continue to cross as I criss-cross the state. It is always a pleasure to spend time with these amazing women. Just as they are friends to me, they are superb role models to the Outstanding Teens, like BrieAnna. I am looking forward to making more friends like them this week as the state contestants meet for the first time in Orlando.

One last thing. Best of luck to our outgoing queens, Miss Statesville Jessica Marshall, Miss Gaston County Nicole Southgate, and Miss Gastonia Grace Wepner. Congratulations to our new Miss Statesville Kaitlin Cook and our new queens to be named this weekend. And of course, kudos to Miss North Carolina's Outstanding Teen BrieAnna Hester for a job well-done this week!

Now I'm off to visit Children's Miracle Network kids and to act like a kid myself at a Fast-Pass tour of Disney World...More to come later!

From Orlando,
Jessica Jacobs

Congratulations!

2007-07-23T10:46:00.000-07:00

Congratulations to all our Little Miss North Carolina contestants!

I had the pleasure of meeting all of the young ladies who competed this year. Each one is darling and should be commended for participating. Performing beautifully onstage and speaking eloquently in front of a group of people is no simple feat. And for these girls to do so at such a young age is remarkable.

It is my hope that each contestant left Hickory with fond memories and confidence gained from stepping up to a challenge. As I spoke with fellow High Pointer and LMNC emcee David Harb during the program, I expressed that I competed many times before ever winning a preliminary title. I hope that young girls will learn from this. Perseverance and practice count!

This week I was actually thankful for all of those 'experience' pageants from which I may not have walked away with crown but, instead public speaking and presentation lessons learned. On Thursday I addressed the General Assembly. Now, if there is ever a time to speak and present well, this is one. An opportunity to communicate with our state's leaders is a tremendous one. Our congresswomen and congressmen are doing great works and are also great speakers. My competition efforts and experience served me well in this situation!

I addressed the Senate first, then the House, each in its own chamber. A group of legislators from my Central Carolina region escorted me to the front of the room for an introduction and warm welcome. It was interesting to learn the proper protocol for beginning my remarks; there is something almost regal about following ritual, especially in a historic state building. I chose to speak about education, sharing information about scholarships awarded through the Miss America Organization and my service platform, early childhood literacy. I happily announced that I will continue to partner with Communities in Schools of North Carolina to reach elementary students. When I explained that I will visit schools in each of the organization's 40 chapters, delivering 150,000 over the year, I saw smiling faces and nods of appreciation. CIS is a relevant organization and I am proud to work closely with it to reach children, many of whom have never owned a book of their very own.

Both the Senate and the House gave me a standing ovation. And a state flag! Again, I was amazed at the support and hospitality I received from a group of people who believes in who I am and what I do, without ever having met me. I was told that my visit was one of the most exciting events to occur in the General Assembly in quite some time, for both legislators and the high school pages who dedicate a week of their summer to learn more about our state system. They should know, however, that this is one of the most exciting events to occur to me in my life!

An experience like this would not be possible had I not first put myself in a competition situation. That is why I hope that each young LMNC contestant someday realizes that she has already taken the first step towards great things. Trying is a prerequisite for success.

Again, congratulations!
Jessica Jacobs

Visit Miss North Carolina's CMN Donation Site

2007-07-14T14:22:00.000-07:00

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Homecoming

2007-07-14T05:50:00.000-07:00

Here's a riddle. Who is one girl with two homes, neither in which has she ever lived? The answer: ME!

Last weekend I went home to Lumberton, NC for Lumbee Homecoming. Although I did not grow up in the area, I do have many family members who hail from there. In fact, over the weekend I had all sorts of people approach me to explain just exactly how we are related, whether I realized it or not. One little girl who had just won a title ran up to me exclaiming that we are cousins and that "pageantry must run in the family." How darling!

Participating in Homecoming, which is an annual event for my tribe that includes 10 days of rituals and activities, was an incredible honor. I served as the emcee for the Coronation Ceremony during which the new Miss Lumbee, Junior Miss Lumbee, Young Miss Lumbee, and Little Miss Lumbee are inducted as ambassadors of our tribe. It was humbling to play a significant role in this cultural event that provides young Lumbee women with the opportunity to represent our tribe in a leadership role. The next day I rode in the parade, new car signs and all! The highlight of the day was catching a ride in a miniature clown car with "Happy" to get to the life-size convertible that would carry me through the streets of Pembroke!

Over the weekend I was struck with the enormous welcome I received from all the people that I met. It truly felt as if I had returned home after a long time away. I appreciate the way that my relatives, however distantly related, embraced me and shared in my recent accomplishment of becoming Miss North Carolina.

From there I took a brief trip to Spartanburg, SC to watch the Miss South Carolina pageant. You would think it would be such a relief to watch a pageant for once, but I can’t help but get nervous for the contestants! A lovely woman was crowned and I had the pleasure of meeting her, along with Miss Georgia and Miss New Mexico. I am looking forward to seeing them again at the Miss America's Outstanding Teen Pageant in Orlando. I then headed east to spend time with some closer relatives at the beach ... my mom, dad, brother, and sister.

Whether you can believe it or not, I drove back to Spartanburg (just a week later) from the beach to have my pictures taken. I have already started to log the hours I spend in the car just to be able to look back over my year and see all the ground I have covered! Now I am finally home again, this time not in Lumberton but in the Archdale-Trinity area. This is where I was crowned Miss Central Carolina and where I spent many Fridays in the school system, reading to elementary school students. Again, although I did not grow up in either of these towns, I have a family here. A family of community members who believed in me as I prepared for becoming Miss North Carolina. They included me in annual community events, they welcomed my thoughts and words in service organization meetings, and they happily invited me into their schools to spend time with their children and grandchildren.

On Sunday we will meet again for a Homecoming Party in honor of both me and Miss North Carolina's Outstanding Teen BrieAnna Hester, who is also a former Central Carolina girl. I know many are looking forward to the event, but none more than me. I am looking forward to my opportunity to say thank you for the support I received, a kind of support I previously thought could only come from close friends and family.

At the end of my year as Miss North Carolina, I hope that I can claim each part of this state as my home. I have already learned that I do not have to be from Asheville or Charlotte or Wilmington to call it home because the people I meet throughout my travels will call me family and make me feel like I belong. That’s a great thing for a woman to be able to claim about her home state!

Coming soon to a home near you,
Jessica Jacobs

The first weeks on the job

2007-07-05T14:19:00.000-07:00

Hello North Carolina!

I have only been Miss North Carolina for about two weeks, but so much has changed. In one moment I went from being a graduate student at North Carolina State University to being a representative of the State of North Carolina, the Miss North Carolina organization, and the Children’s Miracle Network. I'd say it's a promotion!

Last week, between moving into my fully furnished, official Miss North Carolina apartment, completing Miss America paperwork, and meeting a number of radio personalities and television journalists, I had to remind myself to breath. At this point I am reveling in my many blessings and praying that I live up to everyone’s expectations, including my own.

If you are anything like me, you feel like change can be difficult and the unknown even more so. This year holds a lot of change, a lot of unknowns. But a deep breath and a prayer center me and I know that the avenues opened by taking a step out of my box and into uncertainty will lead to great things. Great things not only for my personal development and life goals, but for our state and our organization. I have a lot of work to do and I’m ready to tackle it all.

This week I traveled for my first full day on the job. I attended the 4th of July celebration in Southport and a concert at Fort Bragg. Southport is the most charming town. For being so small, it certainly attracts a gigantic crowd for what is the oldest Independence Day celebration in the state. I met Secretary of State Elaine Marshall who shared with me the reason why she loves being a part of the parade each year. The people are polite. And they are! I have never met so many nice people, but I guess it doesn’t hurt when you are Miss NC. The crown is a little conspicuous ... During the parade people were yelling my name as if they know me. I also had people teaching me how to do the "pageant wave." My favorite memory from the morning was posing with a group of ladies who let me wear their Groucho Marx glasses with the big nose and mustache. I felt like I needed an eyebrow wax!

When I arrived at Fort Bragg I worked the VIP tent and enjoyed an energetic Neal McCoy concert…only after he called me out for wearing a crown. The band tried to break into a rendition of a Queen song and they asked if I sing. The answer to that would be, in one decisive word, "NO!" But, in all sincerity, this was the most meaningful 4th of July in which I have ever taken part, simply because I was able to spend time with the people who truly deserve to be celebrated on the holiday. I was honored to be asked to film a shout out to the servicemen and women who are overseas. My heartfelt appreciation goes out to them, especially as a representative of a state that sends so many of her people to serve our country.

Tomorrow I will take part in Lumbee Homecoming festivities. Mom is escorting me to the Coronation Ball and my grandma is going to ride in the parade with me. I am particularly excited about this event because it will give me the first true opportunity to attend Homecoming and see what it is all about; something very important for me to experience in order to better understand my heritage. It is heartening to see that my numerous experiences will be memories shared with family, friends, and all of you!

As more develops I will keep everyone updated. To me, being Miss North Carolina is about the journey and I hope that all of you will join me. I know that my strength as a leader and spokesperson will be solidified by my support system, all of you.

Until next time,
Jessica Jacobs
Miss North Carolina