Saturday, October 27, 2007

Help Jessica raise money for Children's Miracle Network

Jessica is getting ready to compete in the Miss America pageant. As a contestant, she needs your help to raise money for Children'sMiracle Network and the Miss America Scholarship Fund. Please help her reach her goal of $1,500.00 by clicking on the link below. Your donation will be considered a charitable donation for tax purposes anda receipt will be provided at the end of the year.

http://www.missamerica4kids.org/m.aspx?i=999A7CA206C&e=3B4659BC95

Once you have completed a secure on-line donation, your donation will be included in Jessica's fund raising total on her personal page. Jessica's personal page will track her results and provide a comparison to other contestants. This year the Miss America Organization has teamed up with Children'sMiracle Network, a non-profit organization dedicated to saving and improving the lives of children by raising funds for children'shospitals. This new partnership gives each contestant the opportunityto raise awareness and funds for two great organizations Miss America Organization and Children's Miracle Network.

Wednesday, October 10, 2007

Hospitality

What hospitality! I encounter it everywhere I go. Because of my partnership with Communities In Schools of North Carolina, I am spreading the love for reading across the state and gaining a ton of welcomes in return.

When I arrive to a particular area to embark on my tour of schools, I am always met by a local Communities In Schools representative who guides me along my way. I have spent time with new and old friends in the CIS office as a result. The executive directors, staff, and volunteers who coordinate my visits are certainly busy giving all they have to support the children who need it most.

And I can see why they do it. These children are wonderful! After every presentation (whether it is on reading or decision-making), I receive more hugs and thank you's than I could have anticipated. I have been presented with school t-shirts, sweatshirts, and coffee mugs, pens and books. One book even had the signatures of the children I read to that day, each one under a different picture of a dinosaur! Towns welcome me with local marquee signs and the news media always stop by to cover a visit. The students also document the event. I have posed for yearbook photos, read words of wisdom for two schools' news shows, and been interviewed by an eager group of aspiring fifth-grade journalists who came prepared with wonderful questions. Another school posted an interview on its school Web site. Check out this podcast from Broad Creek Middle's technology team: http://www.carteretcountyschools.org/bcms/.

One of my favorite moments occurred at an elementary school in Carteret County (I was in town to visit schools for two days and to appear at the Seafood Festival for two days, a GREAT time!). I was asked to remain outside of the gym until I was called upon. It was a delight to see that the Safety Patrol (fifth-graders who look out for the hall and bus-loading safety of the younger kids) would escort me to the microphone. I had my own security detail, like the President! I wonder if they had a secret code name for me? At the end of the session, all of the students stood to serenade me with their school song. It is truly a precious memory.

Oh, and they feed me too! Lunch is a nice moment to relax and get to know teachers, administrators, and students. And I always know that an assortment of snacks will be ready at Thomasville Primary where "Read to Me" all began...

Returning to Thomasville was especially sweet. It was like a "Read to Me" reunion. I reconnected with the media specialists and director of the Communities In Schools of Thomasville chapter who helped me to establish the program. Over lunch, I met with the local CIS Board. I was surprised to be presented with a hand-crafted walking stick. Instead of giving away keys to the city, the Davidson County Commissioners give a lovely, locally-made walking stick. A plaque thanks me for my service to the community and notes that it is only the fifth of its kind to be given away.

Like I said, it is a delight to reconnect with people who have helped along the way to bring "Read to Me" to life. But it is also a blast to find people you never expected to find. While giving a good-decisions presentation at a middle school, I noticed a teacher sitting at the top of the bleachers. He looked familiar and he seemed to be paying particularly close attention to my message. As he walked up to speak afterwards, it all became clear. "Mr. Sanderson!" I exclaimed. My freshman Biology teacher now teaches middle school science by the beach. What a small world.

Although visiting students is my favorite part about being Miss North Carolina, I revel in the opportunity to experience a number of different events. This past weekend at the Seafood Festival I toured a naval ship (the officers were hospitable as well; they must have learned it in school!), flung the first flounder into a frying pan (a Miss NC tradition, I was successful on all three tries), and sent off professional fisherman for a tournament (look for footage of me calling their boat numbers on ESPN2 in December). The great thing about attending the Seafood Festival was that I was able to visit longer with the students I had met in school that week. Many showed up for the festivities and many approached me to chat about the school visit or the fun rides and delicious food.


So impressed with our schools, students, and CIS chapters,
Jessica

Tuesday, October 02, 2007

Kids say the darndest things!

Kids say the darndest things!

Some of the things that the students I visit across the state say really tickle me. Whether I am reading to K-5 or speaking about good decision-making with a middle or high school, I always wrap up my presentations with Q&A time. I learned quickly that kindergartners do not understand what a question is. But they love telling stories!

Here are some examples with my responses in italics...

My birthday is in December.

Awesome! That must be cool that it's so near to Christmas!

My favorite food is pizza.

Well, I don't trust anyone who doesn't like pizza...

My dog farts.

(Giggle) I've never had a pet, I didn't know that they do that!

If you showed up to my uncle's house, he would fall back in his recliner!

Oh my! I better not go there. We wouldn't want him to break a bone!


Now, as the kids get a bit older, they come up with questions that they actually ask. What I have found so interesting is that students, no matter where they grow up, want to know the same things.

It goes a little like this...

How do you keep your crown on your head?

They sewed it to me when I won. Just kidding! I pin it to my head, see? (bend over to demonstrate). If I could do a handstand, and then I did one, it wouldn't fall off. Cool, huh?

...I actually did limbo at one school with it on.

What do you drive?

A little teal, Toyota Corolla. But it's so dirty because I live out of it. I would be embarrassed for you to see it. Anyone want to wash it for me? I'll give you $5. (hands raise quickly).

Are you rich?

No! I just live in an apartment, but wouldn't it be neat if I lived in a castle? If I had a castle it would definitely have a moat and a drawbridge.

Do you have to do paperwork?

Oh yeah! I hate to break it to you, but every job has paperwork. You'll be doing it for the rest of your life; those worksheets are not the end of it...

Do you do kids' homework?

No, because then my brother would get jealous and want me to do his homework, too.

Do you have a sister?

I sure do! But she's lives in Egypt right now. Plus, I think she's a little too old for you.

Are those real diamonds in your crown?

No. What do you think I would do with my crown if it were made of real diamonds?

Sell it!!!!!!

How old are you?

23. (I don't want to know if they thought I was older or younger!)

Is there a Mr. North Carolina?

Not officially. But my boyfriend Dan thinks that's his title. Should I bring him by to visit next time? (a chorus of yeah!)

Are you married?

Nope. What would my title be if I were married?

Mrs. North Carolina!

Do you like pigs in a blanket?

Yummy! My mom makes those.

I just love the cheese in the middle!


Now, of course, I get many serious questions too. I especially love it when students want to know more about my favorite books and genres of literature. I enjoy giving suggestions that might pique their interests. At one elementary school I had the distinct pleasure of being interviewed by six 5th graders for their school's morning news program. They each asked two questions and all were intelligent. They wanted to know how I got involved with pageants, what are my favorite parts of being Miss NC, what is my best elementary school memory, etc. They were darling and enthusiastic. One boy even mentioned that he was so excited for my visit that he couldn't sleep the night before! How cute!

There are far too many memories and experiences to detail here. I wish I could remember everything I get asked; it would make a fantastic book! As I think of more, I may add to this list. As a state titleholder, you certainly have to be quick on your feet. You never know where those questions will come from!

My days are full of humor!
Jessica