Monday, July 23, 2007

Congratulations!

Congratulations to all our Little Miss North Carolina contestants!

I had the pleasure of meeting all of the young ladies who competed this year. Each one is darling and should be commended for participating. Performing beautifully onstage and speaking eloquently in front of a group of people is no simple feat. And for these girls to do so at such a young age is remarkable.

It is my hope that each contestant left Hickory with fond memories and confidence gained from stepping up to a challenge. As I spoke with fellow High Pointer and LMNC emcee David Harb during the program, I expressed that I competed many times before ever winning a preliminary title. I hope that young girls will learn from this. Perseverance and practice count!

This week I was actually thankful for all of those 'experience' pageants from which I may not have walked away with crown but, instead public speaking and presentation lessons learned. On Thursday I addressed the General Assembly. Now, if there is ever a time to speak and present well, this is one. An opportunity to communicate with our state's leaders is a tremendous one. Our congresswomen and congressmen are doing great works and are also great speakers. My competition efforts and experience served me well in this situation!

I addressed the Senate first, then the House, each in its own chamber. A group of legislators from my Central Carolina region escorted me to the front of the room for an introduction and warm welcome. It was interesting to learn the proper protocol for beginning my remarks; there is something almost regal about following ritual, especially in a historic state building. I chose to speak about education, sharing information about scholarships awarded through the Miss America Organization and my service platform, early childhood literacy. I happily announced that I will continue to partner with Communities in Schools of North Carolina to reach elementary students. When I explained that I will visit schools in each of the organization's 40 chapters, delivering 150,000 over the year, I saw smiling faces and nods of appreciation. CIS is a relevant organization and I am proud to work closely with it to reach children, many of whom have never owned a book of their very own.

Both the Senate and the House gave me a standing ovation. And a state flag! Again, I was amazed at the support and hospitality I received from a group of people who believes in who I am and what I do, without ever having met me. I was told that my visit was one of the most exciting events to occur in the General Assembly in quite some time, for both legislators and the high school pages who dedicate a week of their summer to learn more about our state system. They should know, however, that this is one of the most exciting events to occur to me in my life!

An experience like this would not be possible had I not first put myself in a competition situation. That is why I hope that each young LMNC contestant someday realizes that she has already taken the first step towards great things. Trying is a prerequisite for success.

Again, congratulations!
Jessica Jacobs

Saturday, July 14, 2007

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Homecoming

Here's a riddle. Who is one girl with two homes, neither in which has she ever lived? The answer: ME!

Last weekend I went home to Lumberton, NC for Lumbee Homecoming. Although I did not grow up in the area, I do have many family members who hail from there. In fact, over the weekend I had all sorts of people approach me to explain just exactly how we are related, whether I realized it or not. One little girl who had just won a title ran up to me exclaiming that we are cousins and that "pageantry must run in the family." How darling!

Participating in Homecoming, which is an annual event for my tribe that includes 10 days of rituals and activities, was an incredible honor. I served as the emcee for the Coronation Ceremony during which the new Miss Lumbee, Junior Miss Lumbee, Young Miss Lumbee, and Little Miss Lumbee are inducted as ambassadors of our tribe. It was humbling to play a significant role in this cultural event that provides young Lumbee women with the opportunity to represent our tribe in a leadership role. The next day I rode in the parade, new car signs and all! The highlight of the day was catching a ride in a miniature clown car with "Happy" to get to the life-size convertible that would carry me through the streets of Pembroke!

Over the weekend I was struck with the enormous welcome I received from all the people that I met. It truly felt as if I had returned home after a long time away. I appreciate the way that my relatives, however distantly related, embraced me and shared in my recent accomplishment of becoming Miss North Carolina.

From there I took a brief trip to Spartanburg, SC to watch the Miss South Carolina pageant. You would think it would be such a relief to watch a pageant for once, but I can’t help but get nervous for the contestants! A lovely woman was crowned and I had the pleasure of meeting her, along with Miss Georgia and Miss New Mexico. I am looking forward to seeing them again at the Miss America's Outstanding Teen Pageant in Orlando. I then headed east to spend time with some closer relatives at the beach ... my mom, dad, brother, and sister.

Whether you can believe it or not, I drove back to Spartanburg (just a week later) from the beach to have my pictures taken. I have already started to log the hours I spend in the car just to be able to look back over my year and see all the ground I have covered! Now I am finally home again, this time not in Lumberton but in the Archdale-Trinity area. This is where I was crowned Miss Central Carolina and where I spent many Fridays in the school system, reading to elementary school students. Again, although I did not grow up in either of these towns, I have a family here. A family of community members who believed in me as I prepared for becoming Miss North Carolina. They included me in annual community events, they welcomed my thoughts and words in service organization meetings, and they happily invited me into their schools to spend time with their children and grandchildren.

On Sunday we will meet again for a Homecoming Party in honor of both me and Miss North Carolina's Outstanding Teen BrieAnna Hester, who is also a former Central Carolina girl. I know many are looking forward to the event, but none more than me. I am looking forward to my opportunity to say thank you for the support I received, a kind of support I previously thought could only come from close friends and family.

At the end of my year as Miss North Carolina, I hope that I can claim each part of this state as my home. I have already learned that I do not have to be from Asheville or Charlotte or Wilmington to call it home because the people I meet throughout my travels will call me family and make me feel like I belong. That’s a great thing for a woman to be able to claim about her home state!

Coming soon to a home near you,
Jessica Jacobs

Thursday, July 05, 2007

The first weeks on the job

Hello North Carolina!

I have only been Miss North Carolina for about two weeks, but so much has changed. In one moment I went from being a graduate student at North Carolina State University to being a representative of the State of North Carolina, the Miss North Carolina organization, and the Children’s Miracle Network. I'd say it's a promotion!

Last week, between moving into my fully furnished, official Miss North Carolina apartment, completing Miss America paperwork, and meeting a number of radio personalities and television journalists, I had to remind myself to breath. At this point I am reveling in my many blessings and praying that I live up to everyone’s expectations, including my own.

If you are anything like me, you feel like change can be difficult and the unknown even more so. This year holds a lot of change, a lot of unknowns. But a deep breath and a prayer center me and I know that the avenues opened by taking a step out of my box and into uncertainty will lead to great things. Great things not only for my personal development and life goals, but for our state and our organization. I have a lot of work to do and I’m ready to tackle it all.

This week I traveled for my first full day on the job. I attended the 4th of July celebration in Southport and a concert at Fort Bragg. Southport is the most charming town. For being so small, it certainly attracts a gigantic crowd for what is the oldest Independence Day celebration in the state. I met Secretary of State Elaine Marshall who shared with me the reason why she loves being a part of the parade each year. The people are polite. And they are! I have never met so many nice people, but I guess it doesn’t hurt when you are Miss NC. The crown is a little conspicuous ... During the parade people were yelling my name as if they know me. I also had people teaching me how to do the "pageant wave." My favorite memory from the morning was posing with a group of ladies who let me wear their Groucho Marx glasses with the big nose and mustache. I felt like I needed an eyebrow wax!

When I arrived at Fort Bragg I worked the VIP tent and enjoyed an energetic Neal McCoy concert…only after he called me out for wearing a crown. The band tried to break into a rendition of a Queen song and they asked if I sing. The answer to that would be, in one decisive word, "NO!" But, in all sincerity, this was the most meaningful 4th of July in which I have ever taken part, simply because I was able to spend time with the people who truly deserve to be celebrated on the holiday. I was honored to be asked to film a shout out to the servicemen and women who are overseas. My heartfelt appreciation goes out to them, especially as a representative of a state that sends so many of her people to serve our country.


Tomorrow I will take part in Lumbee Homecoming festivities. Mom is escorting me to the Coronation Ball and my grandma is going to ride in the parade with me. I am particularly excited about this event because it will give me the first true opportunity to attend Homecoming and see what it is all about; something very important for me to experience in order to better understand my heritage. It is heartening to see that my numerous experiences will be memories shared with family, friends, and all of you!

As more develops I will keep everyone updated. To me, being Miss North Carolina is about the journey and I hope that all of you will join me. I know that my strength as a leader and spokesperson will be solidified by my support system, all of you.

Until next time,
Jessica Jacobs

Miss North Carolina